When you aren't looking, you just might find what you were looking for!

So, like me, I'm sure you have heard the saying "you'll find what you're looking for, when you stop looking". Well, do you know how many times I "stopped" looking?? But the thing is that I really never stopped looking. Until recently. I found a guy on Match. com and we emailed thru there, then we exchanged emails and emailed some more, then we started texting and talking on the phone. He was really sweet and made me laugh, I even thought he made my heart smile! Due to his circumstances us meeting in person was put on hold (his 3 kids came to live with him full time), but I was ok with it and we kept talking. But this other guy, J, (whom I've had a crush on for years) was on my mind, ever since seeing him at Vehicle Day where I work. So naturally, I went to my sisters for their advice and they both told me that they could see me more with J. They said that they saw how I lit up when he was there. I didn't even realize that! So, my younger sister told me to text him and ask him for his address so the kids could send him a thank you. And while I was at it, I asked if he was dating anyone!! He texted me back and no, he wasn't dating anyone. So we had a nice long "texting" convo and decided to go out! I was so excited! (And a little shocked that I was SO excited!) I told the other guy I was talking to and he totally understood and we are still friends.....Anyway, so J and I went out Saturday night. He picked me up at 5:30pm and I got home at 1:45am!!! It was the best 1st date EVER!! Needless to say, I am off the market now!! :) And believe that what you're looking for will come along when you aren't looking!!