Does he really exist?

So, I was given 3 months on eHarmony and 6 months on Match.com (that way, if I don't find anyone I can get 6 months free!). After spending what seemed like FOREVER going through the personality profile on eHarmony I was finally able to review and communicate with my matches. I sent so many "first step" questions, and NEVER got a reply!! Then finally I got sent questions, only to find out they were from someone I had "archived". Ugh....so I go on to Match, it took quite a while to do my profile, but not as long as eHarmony. I enter what I am looking for in a man, age 27-37, within 50 miles of my zip code, about average/fit-athletic body type, Christian, non-smoker. I got 13 results. Wow, I thought! Then I started looking at profiles, well, lets just say only about 5 of them seemed like what I was looking for, so I sent them a wink or an email. Then you wait......the interesting thing is you can see who and when someone checks out your profile. Is it really that hard to send a polite, no thanks?! Out of the 5 that I contacted I got one response. We have sense become friends but it won't be going any further than that, after talking to him more, he's just not my type. So I log on again, and check things out.....nothing, lots of people looking but that seems to be it. Really makes ya wonder if it is really worth it.......is it really worth thinking my Prince Charming really exists? Is it really worth wondering what is wrong with me? Or better yet, why can't guys just be polite and say thanks, but no thanks? Ugh....well eHarmony is up next month and I will NOT be renewing it! I still have 5 months left on Match, here's hoping I find my prince!!